tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1229985746554244184.post3758499113655197534..comments2023-10-11T04:02:18.220-04:00Comments on Life on the Hilltop: smarty pants?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03950568097767977124noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1229985746554244184.post-77971311422358238602011-02-01T22:40:27.908-05:002011-02-01T22:40:27.908-05:00This is a tough one...I am a "helper"......This is a tough one...I am a "helper"...it's just who I am, so if someone complains or questions or seems to be seeking a solution, I will do my best to find it for them. Unfortunately, I have found that some people seem to be happier being "unhappy"...it's as if they NEED to have something to complain about because they don't understand how to communicate any other way. It's their conversation starter in a way....and it's darn annoying. I've found that over time I figure out who these guys are and save my "skills" for those who truly need them...the other guys get the "uh huh...oh, that's too bad...uh huh" ...seems mean at times, but honestly it saves me a lot of headache/heartache/sanity.MustHaveCoffee...https://www.blogger.com/profile/17870187320147601073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1229985746554244184.post-40854697546337781892011-01-20T11:30:26.849-05:002011-01-20T11:30:26.849-05:00I really think it's up to the person who is re...I really think it's up to the person who is receiving to decide if they want to use it or not. If they didn't want a solution they wouldn't ask or complain about it right? Alright, *MOST* people wouldn't the others, well take it with a grain of salt. Then again, I am a giver and receiver of unsolicited advice myself.Marcihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02470020825623610478noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1229985746554244184.post-33712190358638327552011-01-20T07:53:13.057-05:002011-01-20T07:53:13.057-05:00no, advice about one that belongs to someone else....no, advice about one that belongs to someone else.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03950568097767977124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1229985746554244184.post-31594437634954356262011-01-19T19:56:54.512-05:002011-01-19T19:56:54.512-05:00Difficult relative...moi?Difficult relative...moi?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1229985746554244184.post-38096695707067349732011-01-19T15:04:00.745-05:002011-01-19T15:04:00.745-05:00Maybe that is why we are friends...I'm a smart...Maybe that is why we are friends...I'm a smarty pants too.Triciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04689724207043206712noreply@blogger.com